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Friday, April 08, 2011

Reality Check

Forgive me while I vent for a little while.

It has recently become very apparent to me just how self-centered this generation is. We are considered to be the most socially conscious generation thus far, but why? Why do we do the things we do and give money and support to charities of our own choosing? 

This generation has been dubbed one of a need for instant gratification. We live in a now-world. We want things the minute we ask for them and if we have to wait, we are dissatisfied or even angry. While this is the case, we have also become known as one that gives back. We give back to the earth, to people who inspire us, to the underprivileged. We recycle anything and everything. We are clad in various organizations and charities that we support, as if almost branded by them. 



















I am included in this. I currently have an Ovarian Cancer National Alliance bracelet on my keychain and a TOMS bracelet on my wrist. I am often seen wearing T-shirts in support of mission trips or homelessness awareness.

Why do I wear these things? Is it so that others will see what a good person I am and how I am involved in giving back? Or is there another reason why I am constantly a walking billboard for various causes that I believe in? 

I'm not saying that it's a bad thing to support these philanthropies, I'm just questioning motives. Over the past week, I have been mulling over this thought. Tuesday was TOMS "One Day Without Shoes" and while I did participate, I contemplated my reasoning. Personally, I am a huge fan of TOMS and what they stand for. If you don't know, they are a for-profit organization that for every pair of shoes sold, they give one to a child in need.  (if you want to read more, go here: http://www.toms.com/our-movement/). Throughout the day, I received confused looks from passersby and even a couple of questions in regards to my sanity and/or judgement. Whenever I got questions about my barefeet, I briefly told the questioner about TOMS and their fight to bring awareness to what children without shoes have to suffer through every day. At the end of the day, my feet were covered in dirt and various other elements that they had encountered throughout the day and they ached everytime I took a step. But with every aching step, was a reminder to myself about how stinking privileged I am and I don't even realize it sometimes. My feet aren't used to walking miles on hot concrete and asphalt, over sticks and gravel. I usually have shoes that protect me against all of that.-- Here's where my eyes were opened-- Days like this, the "One Day Without Shoes", aren't so much for raising awareness within our peers or those surrounding us as much as it is about raising awareness within ourselves and giving us a wake-up call. There are way more important things in the world than little ole me or you. I'm just being real. 

example of an old pair of shoes that a child had before they received their TOMS
I know a lot of people don't agree with TOMS campaigns, for one reason or another. Everyone is entitled to their opinion and I'm not going to go into a whole tirade about that- I'll save it for another day. But, whether or not you think that this is the most effective means to solving a problem or not, they are doing something to help. They reach their target market effectively, and people who wouldn't normally drop a few Hamiltons in another philanthropy's jar are now helping stop the spread of diseases and increasing the quality of life for many people. 


Challenge: Take a step back and examine why you do the things you do. Is it for self promotion, to look like a good person in the eyes of those around you? Or is it to enhance the quality of life for those around you who are less fortunate? 

This is a great example of what we should be like. Job had it harder than any of us could ever imagine, yet this was his attitude. We have it better than the majority of the people on the planet, who are we to stick our noses up at those who don't look like we do or give our attention to our iPods and ignore the world around us? Jesus didn't condemn the poor, why then do we feel as if we have any right to hate an organization that is trying to love and lift up those that are deemed unlovable by many. 
JOB 29:11-16
11 Whoever heard me spoke well of me,
   and those who saw me commended me,
12 because I rescued the poor who cried for help,
   and the fatherless who had none to assist them.
13 The one who was dying blessed me;
   I made the widow’s heart sing.
14 I put on righteousness as my clothing;
   justice was my robe and my turban.
15 I was eyes to the blind
   and feet to the lame.
16 I was a father to the needy;
   I took up the case of the stranger.

Don't do it for the praise of the world, do it because of love for the Father.  

*Sara

Sunday, March 27, 2011

**Sidebar**

I fear that many of you may think that I have neglected this blog recently. I am terribly sorry if you feel that way. I don't have access to the pictures that I need for the next couple of posts at this moment, so... let's just take a little hiatus for the 30 day challenge for a bit.

This isn't really picture related, but I thought it would be fun.

iTunes shuffle:

1. Read Between the Lines - KSM
2. My Life Would Suck Without You- Glee Cast
3. Stolen- Dashboard Confessional
4. Umbrella Beach- Owl City
5. Lean On Me- Glee Cast
6. The Little Things- Colbie Caillat
7. No Reason to Hide- Hillsong United
8. We Were Made for You- Aaron Gillespie
9. Live Like We're Dying- The Script
10. All or Nothing- OTown
11. Baby (Ft. Ludacris)- Justin Bieber
12. Outside- Green River Ordinace
13. Just Got Paid- N*SYNC
14. Killer Queen- Queen
15. Donk- Soulja Boy
16. Dirty Little Secret- The All-American Rejects
17. SexyBack- Justin Timberlake
18. Since You Said I Do- Dave Barnes
19. Round and Round- Selena Gomez
20. At Or With Me- Jack Johnson

I think I'll stop now. That was fun.

Monday, March 07, 2011

Day 4: A Picture of Your Favorite Animal

I love penguins! Aren't they just adorable?
I really want to own one, but I have been told
they are quite expensive :(





This is my actual favorite animal, my puppy Dixie. She's not really a puppy, she's kind of old now actually. I got her when I was in 8th grade from the Humane Society. This picture is of her and my sister and was taken during the snow last year.

Friday, March 04, 2011

Day 3: The Person You Have Been Close to for the Longest

Ivy's 22nd Birthday Party. July 2010
This is my Ives. I have known her since, oh kindergarten I believe. We have been through so much together. She has always been the first one to call when something bad happens and is one of the first that I call when I have good news to share. We are not only close in this aspect, our houses are literally within walking distance of each other. Although we don't live in the same town right now, we still make time to catch up when we are both in Albany. Or, when I don't go home for a lengthy period of time, we have our phone calls.

Ivy is one of those few people in my life that I can just sit in a room with, in total silence, and it not feel awkward. She is also one person that I can just look at and she knows what I'm thinking, even if no one else in the room gets it. She understands me when I mumble things, and can tell when something is wrong even when I try my best to hide it.

My Ives is going to revolutionize the world one day. She has a heart for missions and is living that out right now in Albany, but I know one day she will be called to go. I look forward to this day. Yes, I will be sad when she is oceans away, but I know that's what God has her on this earth for and I can't wait to see his plan fulfilled in her life.

Thursday, March 03, 2011

Day 2: The Person You Do the {Craziest} Things With

es, I changed the title of this one. Because, well frankly, I just didn't like the sound of "messed up".

This took some serious thinking. Once upon a time I had a partner in crime. We frequently did crazy things and schemed up even crazier things that, unfortunately, never came into existence.  Then he broke my best friend's heart and we are no longer friends. Therefore, I have lost my partner in crime and have had to resort to riding solo in my craziness.
While I do have friends that will not hesitate to go on an adventure with me, when I want to do anything exceptionally outlandish they mostly just shake their heads and laugh. So, right now I am riding solo in my craziness but am currently holding auditions to fill that opening in my life.

This is me "Whack(ing) a Knight" at Relay for Life last year. Possibly one of the most fun things ever!

Wednesday, March 02, 2011

Day 1: A Picture and 15 Facts

Let me preface this post by saying that these facts are very random, because A) I wanted this post to be interesting & B) coming up with 15 facts that everyone doesn't already know is difficult! So here goes it...

1. I love to color more than the average person.


2. I really really really like crunching leaves. I will even go out of my way if I see an exceptionally crunchy looking leaf that has been overlooked by other passers-by.

3. I HATE feet. I don't really know when this even started, but over the years I have developed a somewhat irrational hatred for feet. My own feet don't bother me, and shoes don't really bother me, but for some reason bare feet really freak me out. So I would greatly appreciate it if you didn't bring yours anywhere near me.

4. I was in a movie {Facing the Giants}. If you haven't seen it, go watch. I was a cheerleader.

5. I have insanely strong fingernails {I did warn you that this list was random}. My nails are so strong that I once broke a pair of nail clippers while I was trying to trim them.

6. I love scarves and will wear them year-round, no matter what anyone says.

7. I have the memory of a goldfish and the attention span of a 2 year old. Which is why it is taking me entirely too long to write this post.

8. I have my own pair of ice skates! Now, I know what you're thinking- When are you ever going to use them. Well, see, that's not the point. I love white ice skates and figure skating in general, and when given the opportunity to purchase my own pair for a measly $20 I jumped right on it.

9.  I take pictures. As if you hadn't already gathered that from this blog.

10. My mom, sister, and I have the same birthmark on our foreheads. It's not as noticeable now as it was when I was younger, I bet some of you didn't even know it was there.

11. I've been told that I'm really a black man. Do with that information what you will.

12. I can name all of the U.S. Presidents in under 30 seconds.

13. I have never broken a bone. I've been close on a couple of occasions, but not a single bone in my body has ever even had a hairline fracture.

14. I sing every song I know. Out loud. I hardly ever take into consideration where I am or who can hear me, and I often break out into my own dance moves.

15. I have Bieber Fever and I'm not in the least bit ashamed. His movie, Never Say Never, sealed this realization for me, I even re-followed him on Twitter. I know, that's huge.


Well, there you have, a little snippet of who I am. I promise the next posts won't take as long for me to crank out. As I stated, I am highly prone to distractions....

Thursday, February 17, 2011

Something New:

Wow, I have been quiet for WAY too long. Because I have come to this realization, I have decided to embark on a new adventure, per say. A 30 Day Challenge. This is not the ordinary 30 Day Challenge that others have undertaken, this expedition will be in the form of images... my Life Through a Lens

Here is an outline of what the posts will be about:
Day 01 - A picture of you and 15 Facts.
Day 02 - A picture of the person you do the most messed up things with.
Day 03 - A picture of you and the person you have been close with for the longest.
Day 04 - A picture of your favorite animal.
Day 05 - A picture of someone you miss
Day 06 - A picture of your favorite memory.
Day 07 - A picture of a person you'd love to trade places with for a day.
Day 08 - A picture of your most treasured item.
Day 09 - A picture that makes you laugh.
Day 10 - A picture of the person who has gotten you through the most.
Day 11 - A picture of your night. 
Day 12 - A picture of something you hate.
Day 13 - A picture of something you love.
Day 14 - A picture of your favorite band or artist.
Day 15 - A picture of someone you could never imagine your life without.
Day 16 - A picture of something you want to do before you die.
Day 17 - A picture of someone who you look up to.
Day 18 - A picture of something that has made a huge impact on your life recently.
Day 19 - A picture of where you hope to be in the future.
Day 20 - A picture of you when you were little.
Day 21 - A picture of somewhere you'd love to travel.
Day 22 - A picture of something you wish you could forget.
Day 23 - A picture of something you wish you were better at.
Day 24 - A picture of your favorite book.
Day 25 - A picture of something you wish you could change.
Day 26 - A picture of your day.
Day 27 - A picture of something that means a lot to you.
Day 28 - A picture of yourself and a family member.
Day 29 - A picture of something you're afraid of.
Day 30 - A picture that can always make you smile.